HOW TO PUT YOUR PHONE DOWN & EAT ALONE

You’ve done it…you’re out in the world alone! Whether it’s a trip to Bali or the neighboring city, having to eat any meal alone can make you feel self-conscious. Unless you’re suffering from Solomangarephobia, your only options aren’t wolfing down lunch & quickly bolting or scrolling through your phone the entire time. Nope! Enjoy your solitude…in fact, embrace it! Here’s some ideas on how to make the most of your dining sans-partner:

• Relax & sit back! Enjoy being at one with your favorite person…YOU! Once you've got your order sorted, just sit back & take note of your surroundings. I play this game when I’m eating alone….I call it “ID the perp”. I look at someone for a count of 10 & try & memorize every detail about their appearance, so if they go postal, I can nail the sketch artist’s drawing. (Yes, I know I watch WAY too many crime shows!). It’s kinda fun though! People watching is so interesting! I imagine who these people are, where they’re going, what they do for a living…all sorts of weird stuff. It’s also good to be aware of your surroundings when you travel & this kind of stuff hones your skills.

• Ask to sit up at the bar…that’s where the action is! Most people who sit up at the bar are solo as well, so you just might make a friend. If the bartender is worth his salt, he’ll make you feel comfortable & it’s also a great way to nab a seat in a busy restaurant without a reservation. I’ve snagged a bar stool at some of the busiest restaurants, just by asking the hostess if they squeeze another chair in for me at the bar. If I’m in a place that’s a bit sketchy, I ALWAYS tip the bartender HEAVY…get the crew on your side so if you need something, they’ll more than likely be there for you.